Comments on: #14: Don't Fear The Waxer

By: Stef

Stef — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 02:49:54 +0000

My opinion is that men who INSIST on a completely bare pubic area have issues. A bare pubis is very pre-adolescent. I have not been 11 for many moons and do not want to have sex with anyone who thinks that my privates need to look like they belong to an 11 year old.

By: Jake

Jake — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 23:06:40 +0000

You should do whatever makes you happy. If oral sex makes you happy and your lover doesn’t like a face full of fur, maybe you’ll be more motivated to wax. Quite frankly, all you need is to trim as far as I’m concerned. I don’t ask what I can’t reciprocate. I keep myself shaved–my wife gags on loose hairs (among other things!). I think worrying about how old you act by the amount of pubic hair you have is a little after the fact if you’re already naked with your lover and he’s “close enough”, don’t you?

By: insecurewoman

insecurewoman — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 16:36:16 +0000

To Chuck:

Thank You for saying that! You are absolutely right!

By: Jayne

Jayne — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 09:52:20 +0000

The only waxing I will ever do will be with Pledge. On my furniture. Any man who likes the waxed look gets the same response I give to men who like heels: if you like it so much, have at it. Knock yourself out. Then come back and talk to me about it. Just sayin’.

By: Donna

Donna — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 04:09:04 +0000

To show you hold old I am, I didn’t know what a Brazilian wax was until I saw the movie “A Serious Man” by the Coen brothers. Sexy actress who got naked had to wear a “merkin”, which is a hairpiece for the naked pubis. Now I’ve heard everything!

By: chuck

chuck — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 13:51:17 +0000

A little advice from a man: A man is so happy to get to the point where he finds out whether you have hair or not, he will hardly care. No man will ever, ever say: “You have public hair, I can’t continue until you shave.”

If you have a significant other, you may want to take his/her preference into account. But do what makes you happy.

By: intrepidsoul

intrepidsoul — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 21:07:00 +0000

I did the au naturel. Then earlier this year I got a brazilian. Ow, ow, ooooow!!! I felt very vulnerable. It wasn’t appreciated the way I thought it would be And so I’m not doing it again. A little off the sides, maybe. But since most people aren’t going to get to see my nethers, its up to me how I decide that bush to be.

By: Amelia

Amelia — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 18:47:14 +0000

I’d say this advice tip is a bit old. Keep your body hair however you like it! Misogyny and body hate are old – whatever you do with your hair, enjoy it, whether it involves waxing or trimming or going natural. Oh yeah, and I’m 24, so I feel qualified to mention this tip seems outdated.

By: Ellen

Ellen — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 17:57:44 +0000

Ask your gynecologist how smart waxing is – mine (a woman) says she sees more women with preventable infections/problems than she needs to. The reason? Waxing.

I had this conversation with a man. He likes the waxed look, I told him I’d do it if he did it first. He wouldn’t take me up on the offer.

By: marie

marie — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 22:03:23 +0000

I am 22, so I am qualified to tell you that one way not to act old is not to broadcast sad old misogynistic tee-heeing insecurities about the female body. This advice tip is really fucking old, in every way.